Sunday, December 16, 2012

WHAT A JOURNEY!


The past eight weeks have been very exciting.  Learning about different communication has been very helpful for me as a Director.  It has taught me how to be effective in my efforts to communicate with my staff as well as the parents at the center.  To my colleagues who have supported me throughout this semester I thank you and wish you the best in the future.  I hope that we all may stay in touch with one another after this course. 

Thanks a lot,

LaKeshia S. Short

LaKeshia S. Short

shortlakeshia@yahoo.com

Short325@gmail.com 

Sunday, December 9, 2012

FIVE STAGES OF TEAM DEVELOPMENT


FIVE STAGES OF TEAM DEVELOPMENT

I have not really been in a group that was hard to leave.  I have enjoyed being a student at Walden University and meeting new individual online.  I thank my colleagues for their opinions and feedback on my posts throughout this course.  I enjoy the relationship we have as colleagues and I hope the communication can continue when we have overcome that milestone and graduate from Walden University.  Adjourning is not hard for me to do, I have learned that people go and come in your life for a reason.  As I continue to meet new and exciting individual I will learn great things and move forward.

Sunday, December 2, 2012

CONFLICT AND RESOLUTION


Conflict and Resolution

I have been promoted as the Director of the child care center where I work.  When I was Assistant Director my coworkers assume they did not have to listen and do what I advised them to do.  Now as Director they look at me as if I think I own the center.  We seem to get alone okay but have our differences.  One coworker acts like she knows it all, so she tends to get an attitude with me when I confront her on what she is doing wrong.  I do not argue with her, I write her up and let her sign the notice.  After three notices, she has time off without pay.  I commend my workers for doing their best and having a productive classroom. 

With the issue at hand, I would use Magda Gerber 3R’s.  I would show respect toward the person and I would listen to her side of the story.  I would like for the worker as well to listen and respect my decisions.  We would have a conversation with understanding and I would let her know that we must work together as a team and not individually. 

Saturday, November 24, 2012

MYSELF AS A COMMUNICATOR


Myself as a Communicator

After evaluating myself and being evaluated by my coworker and cousin, I have learned that my coworker and I agree that I have mild communication anxiety.  However, my cousin believes that I am moderate.  Mild meaning communication does not seem to be something that I worry a great deal about.  Moderate means that I am somewhat concerned about a number of communication contexts.  My coworker and I evaluation determine that I am significant in Verbal Aggression.  Significant meaning that I might cross the line from “argumentativeness,” which attacks a person’s position or statements.  However, my cousin evaluation result was moderate.  I maintain a good balance between respect and consideration for others’ viewpoints and the ability to agree fairly by attacking the facts. I guess this can be a good thing but I agree with my coworker and myself on the Communication Anxiety but I disagree with Verbal Aggression.  I believe I am moderate when it comes to Verbal Aggression so the result of my cousin is a plus for me.  I believe I am very calm and respectful when communicating in public or speaking to a group ad I try to be respectful as possible.   

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Communicating with Others


Cultural Diversity

 

Do you find yourself communicating differently with people from different groups and cultures? No

 
If yes, in what ways do you communicate differently?  After reading and learning about strategies to communicate with individuals of different cultures, I have realize that I would want to treat the person as I would like he or she to treat me.  I will be respectful and communicate with them as knowledgeable as possible and ask questions that will help me to better understand the individual.  I will use the Platinum Rule as well to help me communicate with people of different cultures.

 

Reference

 

Beebe, S. A., Beebe, S. J., & Redmond, M. V. (2011). Interpersonal communication: Relating to others (6th ed.). pp.(85-114).

Sunday, November 11, 2012

COMMUNICATION WITH AND WITHOUT SOUND


Communication With and Without Sound

The Rickey Smiley Show “Promised Promises”

A hilarious sitcom starring comedian and radio host Rickey Smiley. Rickey plays a character loosely based on his own life.  His role is the single father of three adorable children.

WITHOUT SOUND

As the show came on it was very hard for me to determine what is happening.  Rickey and his coworker were in the radio station.  They were nodding their heads and making hand gestures.  They were talking into their microphones and later Rickey took a cup of coffee from his female friend. It seems as though Rickey was trying to make a point, he continued talking and making hand gestures and left.  He went home and his children were sitting on the sofa.  He then went in the kitchen and talked with the older lady, it looks as though he was yelling up the stairway to the children and he continued his conversation with the older lady.  It looks as though the older lady was telling him what to do and he seems as though he was telling her she didn’t know what she was talking about.  Rickey was making a sandwich as he continue the conversation with the lady.

The older lady and Rickey was close (face to face).  He was making a gesture as though he was telling her “I know I look good!”  The old lady walked out of the house as Rickey continued to talk to lady, when the door opened a young lady was standing outside.  She came in looking as though she had some disappointing news.  The children came downstairs by know I could tell that the young lady was their mother.  The scene went back the radio station.  They were laughing and talking and an older guy was standing outside the glass window yelling.  He went into the room and talked to Rickey.  I couldn’t really make out much without sound but as the scene went back to the house the children mother took them shopping to buy gifts and by the looks of the children face she disappointed them again after receiving a phone call.

WITH SOUND   

As the show came on they were in the radio station talking and laughing about Congressman Chiles, saying he was caught on police video.  Rickey made the statement, “If you see congressman Chiles in your neighborhood lock your door”.  Rickey tried to take his friend coffee but he gave it back after she told him she cough over it and spit in it.  Rickey said he was going to go home and drink some Moscoto and eat cookies.  He was looking forward to the house by himself. 
Aunt Sylvia was on the phone and when she got off she told Rickey and the children that Monica had to work late.  He continue talking to Aunt Sylvia and making his sandwich.  Aunt Sylvia, said she always help Rickey and be there for the children.  Monica, the children mother, talked with Rickey and explained why she was late.  Monica brought over gifts and Rickey and the children were happy. 

At the radio station they were joking about some folic hair cream which makes your hair grow.  The older guy (Maurice) was yelling through the glass because they made a joke that the cream gave Rickey cousin a rash and the microphone was still on.  At the house Monica was bought to leave with the children when she got a phone call from work and disappointed the children because they were unable to go with her. 

It was very difficult for me to determine what was going on in the show without sound.  However, it was better to understand with the sound on.  This was a complicated experience.

Sunday, November 4, 2012

A Competent Communicator


Competent Communicator

I believe my boss Stella Gales is a great competent communicator.  She is very knowledgeable and well educated in the field of Early Childhood Development.  She stays focus on the new and old and she always use resources to support the topic at hand.    When discussing child development she is very passionate about the interest of the child.  When speaking about child development she is well prepared and fluent.  She has been in the early childhood education field since 1993 and she is very concerned about the education of the young children of the future.  When talking about the development skills that young children need in their daily lives she discusses the skills very effectively.  She is a great person to talk to about child development and she will help a person any way she can.  She is a great competent communicator.